We have all heard the stereotyped term, cougar, an older woman seeking a sexual relationship with a younger man. There are even lots of very popular dating apps and sites for cougars, like CougarD which is now the #1 cougar dating app on itunes. But when you get right down to it, what is the difference between a cougar and a MILF who likes younger men ? Well it gets even more confusing now as the new term is WHIP (Women Hot Intelligent & in their PRIME). So are you dating a cougar MILF or WHIP in 2017 ?
I have actually dating more than one cougar or WHIP over the last couple of years. My One Amor posted the story of my first cougar. Since then I have dated 8 others of which 7 I had sex with. I will have to post a story in the future about the one that didn’t have sex as that was definitely a crazy situation.
The reasons why a woman wants a younger man seem somewhat obvious (vanity, hot body sex, feel younger, eye candy, etc.) but what makes a younger guy want an older woman ? There seems to be lots of reasons ranging from intellect, experience, grounded, ability to express feeling, etc. We all remember the show Cougar Town with Courtney Cox and there is Hugh Jackman who has a wife 13 years older. There is no question that it can work out long term and a woman should not be judged for liking a younger man.
From my perspective I can see a younger guy wanting an older woman for the enhanced sexual experience or it may be as basic as someone to take care of them. Many younger women seem to be very basic about sex and not want to try new things or are not good at certain sexual acts. The thought of if you dating a cougar MILF or WHIP probably doesn’t really matter.
From my own personal experience, it was simply because they were hot ! It seems in today’s world lots of older women are just taking better care of themselves like having regular regiments of cosmetic care from skin treatments to Botox and daily gym workouts. If you take a woman who was gorgeous when she was young and add the paying attention to themselves, they are still very attractive.
The very first woman I ever dated from an online dating site (also posted here) was in her early 40s and could have passed for 28. Why did she look so good ? Simple, she started Botox when she was 28 and works out daily.
What I will tell you, without getting into the specifics of the other 7 cougars I has sex with, is that each was great in bed and were amazingly interesting women. If I was looking for a serous relationship, believe it or not, I would seriously consider an older woman as they really seem to know how to make a younger man happy. So back to the question, are you dating a cougar MILF or WHIP in 2017 when you’re dating an older woman. Something to ponder.
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