We hear all the time about people struggling with online dating and dating apps. It seems that everyone has bad first date stories. Believe it or not, there are a couple of things that you can do to actually have success. Let’s go through the best way to meet someone online with success.
First don’t waste a lot of time messaging. People who are serious about meeting someone for a relationship will want to talk. And yes, talk as in voice, not texting. You can learn a lot just but hearing a person’s voice.
When you actually talk you can clearly understand their sense of humor and how good a conversation actually flows. If someone texts “lol” or “lmao” does it mean they are smiling or actually laughing hysterically. Point is, if you’re talking, you’ll know.
Once you have a successful conversation or two then its time to video chat. With Covid and the lockdowns, most people have become accustomed to video chatting. If someone does not want to video chat, that is a red flag. It may be as simple as the don’t look their pictures. Save yourself the misery of a bad first date and being catfished.
If you begin to actually develop chemistry after a video chat, then its time to meet. You’ll most likely have great chemistry because you have already seen the person. The name of the game is to be excited to actually meet the person.
Many times you’ll be trying to kiss right though the video chat. That will carry to the first date.
So, if you follow these simple steps you’ll see it’s the best way to meet someone online with success. Hopefully no deal breakers will emerge as your new relationship develops.